Use Negativity In A Positive Way
Negative opinions of others can be so hurtful, it really stinks, I so wish it could be avoided, but this world is full of negativity and hurtful people. We see it every day and all over social media. I am in daily contact with SO many women who share with me some deep hurts that have been caused by others...it truely breaks my heart.
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I am not sure what your situation may be...maybe someone you have been so close to before has distanced themselves from you for a reason you cannot understand, maybe someone posted something on social media that just dug deep into your heart, sometimes it is just the pure silence of someone not including you that can flood your life with negative feelings and hurt, or maybe someone said something to you or behind your back that was very hurtful.
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You know, as a child I never thought this would exist in adult life, but it totally does!
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I can deal with life's circumstances pretty well, I know that my Savior has me through the hard times and He has a reason for everything...but that does not mean I don't hurt too. I am no different than you, I know how it feels. As a coach, I have made my life, my story, my goals, my passions, my dreams very transparent and I have been encouraged by SO many but also hurt by several.
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But, do you want that negativity and hurt to control our life? To keep you from being YOU? To keep you from doing something GREAT just because you are afraid of what others might say or think or maybe even what they won't say at all?
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Today and every day you have a choice to make...you can choose to move forward no matter what, to remove the negativity and surround yourself with people who love you no matter what, believe in you, and support you...or you can choose to let the opinions of others control you. Your choice... I know what I am choosing...I choose to use the negativity in a positive way to inspire more people, help more people, and to hustle more everyday doing just what I feel God has called me to do!